Do you have a hard time asking for it, be it financial, emotional or otherwise? It's a tough thing for me to do personally and I don't know exactly why. I feel like a failure when I ask for it, but like an idiot when I need it and don't.
Well, not the idiot part, because I've got too much of my identity wrapped up in not asking for help and I find it terribly humiliating even if I finally do, but the failure thing? Um, yeah. Big time. Which would be what feeds the humiliation thing, I'm sure.
Pardon the shouting, but OH MY GOD YES!
ReplyDeleteWell, not the idiot part, because I've got too much of my identity wrapped up in not asking for help and I find it terribly humiliating even if I finally do, but the failure thing? Um, yeah. Big time. Which would be what feeds the humiliation thing, I'm sure.